Is it normal to be annoyed by my girlfriend constantly messaging me while she's on vacation?

I just started dating this girl about two months ago, she went away yesterday and since she has it's been non stop texts and snapchats from Panama City, am I wrong for being annoyed by it? I kinda wanted just a week off, not a constant update of what she's doing. Why is she not just relaxing and taking time off of me?

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  • I don't know what is the frequency of her snapchats

    but... I would think that a guy who really liked his girl would at least want to know how her day was going

    Now if she is pushing it like lets say: hourly snapchats, then I'd see why u would be annoyed

    maybe talk to her clamly about it. but pls be considerate. Girls get hurt by the smallest of things

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    • Like at least 3 snapchats an hour lol

    • oh

      that's a lot

      hmm i think she may be just enthusiastic

      try to ask her to diminish the amount of snapchats, but without hurting her feelings...

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  • Bit of both really. I mean I see where you're coming from but you could just tell her to put the phone down and enjoy the trip, you know?

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  • lol thaz cold

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  • Be happy she's thinking about you on vacation and not having a vacation fling or hooking up with other guys the entire time.

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    • Any ahe just not do either though? lol I guess you're right though.

  • Sounds abit intense to me. When I was about 4 months into my current relationship I went on holiday, he sent me about 4 messages in the course of a week which was nice, anymore than that I think I would have switched off. Its just too much overwise.

    I guess its a compliment though.

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  • It's definitely possible to overtext even if it's from your romantic partner. How normal it is will depend on how often you like to text.

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    • I don't mind texting on the daily, but like if you're on vacay why not just relax and get away from everything is what I was thinking

    • hmm well I do think that she is relaxing. but it is normal to miss u.

  • The best thing about text messages is that you can respond to them whenever you want to.

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