I met someone on a dating site that gave me every indication that we were on our way to spending the rest of our lives together. We seemed to have all of the most important ingredients such as chemistry, communication and mutual respect. We shared many interests and our personalities really fit well together. We never even had a disagreement. then 1 day after 6 monthes of dating she broke it off without any reason or remorse. Afterword I found out that she was dating other men and never had any intention of having anything with me. What was hardest for me to understand the effort that she put into deceiving me and never felt guilty or remorsful about breaking my heart. She knew how I felt about her and she lead me down a dead end street. Why?
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I honestly can't wrap my head around why people do that. in my opinion there is no justification. She should have been honest with you from day 1 that she had no intention to stop seeing other people.
I was in a similar situation with a guy I had dated for over a year. We were together and things were going really well. He was really good to me at first. We agreed to date each other exclusively, and then he became more comfortable in the relationship.
A little bit over a year after we started seeing each other, I found out he had an active dating profile. He completely denies it, of course, but it's there. A friend of mine talked to him and found out he had been seeing other women at the same time as me :( I was devastated.
I have no idea what goes through other people's heads that justifies this type of behaviour to them. He made me think we were going to be together for a long time. He talked with me about moving in together, kept asking me to move closer. But the whole time he had been seeing other women.
Makes no sense to me. And in my opinion there is no excuse. Intentionally lying and deceiving someone is one of the worst things a person can do.1