- Yes, being picky is a good thing
- No, it's not a good thing
Most Helpful Guy
Are they superficial reasons?
Will those reasons matter five years from now? Ten? Twenty? Forty?
Is it possible for you to accept them if you found out they're actually pretty awesome? If they treated you amazing?
Are you, as a woman, selling yourself short because you never meet these men and allow your social instincts to kick in? Do you value reading a profile over a face-to-face meeting to determine suitability? If not, shouldn't you commit to going on more dates in case a bad profile is concealing a great guy?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes it is! I am picky and I would never lower my standards because I don't date for the fun of it, I date while the prospective that this man is a good potential husband and father, that's one of the reason why I'm still single, it's because I didn't meet such men so far.
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