So I met this girl last Thursday at a uni social. We exchanged numbers, I text her the next day and we arranged to go out on the Monday (yesterday), we had a great night and really got on (stayed all night until we were thrown out and had lots to talk about) . She mentioned that she was heading home this Thursday for a few days and I'm heading back home as well at the weekend for a week. I'm thinking of texting her today and asking her out for coffee 2moro before we both go home for mid-term break (1 week). Does that look too needy though. She text me last night when she got home saying that she had a great time and thanked me and I told her I'd call her. I don’t want to give the wrong impression though.
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you need to relax..
dont listen to girls' dating advice because in most of the times its bull..
Anyway relax, its wayyy to early to be ringing for the next date...because you risk appearing desperate (around valentines..) of which you do not want to be associated with that label in ANY case.
Best way is to tell her you had a great time and you want to meet up again after the break...(because you got a life aswell, you want to party the last few days before the break). If she had a great time she will hint to meet before, but if its too early for her, the better it is for you because you'll be in her mind during the break.
So you need to relax and be natural, if the opportnuity to meet before break then fine, but if not.. do not force it because you'll appear desperate, of which I don't need to tell you how unattractive it looks.0