Hi, in my experience I've always treated a lady with respect I buy flowers listen to her and be there for her.
But my relationships never last they tell me how lovely I am and I'm the nicest man thay have ever been with.
It confuses me.
Most Helpful Girl
Goah i wonder how many guys are victim to this myth...1
Most Helpful Guy
Here is how it is in a nutshell. Girls say they want nice guys but they really want a holes. Guys who treat them like crap, who don't answer their phone calls. UNTIL they start getting old in their late 20's to early 30's. NOW they want you for stability, then they might take half down the road in a divorce. Stop treating them with respect because they don't deserve it. Respect is earned. Don't buy flowers for her. Don't buy ANYTHING. Spend $40 max on dates, optimally nothing. It's counterintuitive but it works and you will get laid. When you mean nice, what does that mean?0