Most Helpful Guy
I think she'd probably leave me instead0
Most Helpful Girl
What's the point of being together if you don't want the same things in life?0
No, but it's a pretty major difference in a relationship that might cause problems later.
If we are both adamant about the situation and neither is willing to give in or compromise then yes I would. We're just going to have problems in the future.
I want children so I don't know what to say
Only if she actually gets pregnant, because then I'll know she cheated on me.
If she wants kids, the burden is on her to find someone who wants kids. Why would the man leave?
They usually change their mind but it does mean he doesn't want kids anytime soon like maybe not until his thirties. You have to ask yourself how soon you want them and if you are in a position to raise them on your own if need be.