I've been dating this guy for 4 months. he doesn't initiate trying to get together much, but he got me a diamond necklace. what's up with that?

I really like this guy. We have a great time when we're together and I know he likes me. However, he doesn't really initiate much. We've kissed some, but that's it. He seems okay with not seeing me for a week or more at a time, which can be frustrating. If I text him though he does usually respond. Then he got me a necklace. I'm confused. Should I talk to him? I'm mostly happy with things, but I wish he seemed more interested in spending time with me.

I know he doesn't have other women. At least he isn't acting on any feelings toward other women.

I don't want to push him too much. I may be thinking we're more serious than he does


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  • Yes you should tell him how you feel

    • I don't quite know what to say. He has had some understandable reasons for being busy, and I don't want him to think I'm needy. I don't want to come on too strong. The physical stuff is hard for me to bring up too. I don't want him to think I'm a slut or that's all I care about.

    • You're 31. I wish this needy word was never invented. We do need other people especially the ones we love. Tell him what or how you're feeling not what you're thinking

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  • He has other women. Talk to him about the relationship and what you both want.