I have been seeing this amazing single dad for 3 months now and we have been exclusive friends with benefits, had a play date with our kids, talk about our pasts and our hopes for the future, and just generally get along really well and have some serious chemistry. My problem is is that he's the most respectable man i have ever been with and i enjoy spending time with him and being there for him even though we are not commited, but he has had bad luck in the past 3 years with not only women but life in general. he's a superdad and his kid is first ( we both stated that from day one) and he is protective of him because his exs disrespected him and his kid. He can't help but push people away now and days. And i reasured him i am not going anywhere and i am glad he's in my life regardless of what happens. But i really would like to prove to him how i'm not here to hurt him or his kid. He is very important to me. And i wish i could show him that. Actions speak louder than words and he's heard what i have to say.. so thoughts? Advice?
How do I convince this amazing single dad, that I am not going to break his trust like the other women in his life?
What Guys Said 1
What Girls Said 1
Just continue to let things progress day by day.
Trust is something that has to be earned and built.
When he sees that you are consistent with your behavior, and you can be trusted, he'll not be afraid anymore and let his wall down.
All of this will take time.2
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.