I actually am being cautious because he is a so called bad boy. He does want a relationship, but he use to always get into relationships. Its a common thing for him to do, but he's told me he never wants to get married or have children, etc. As for me I've told myself the next relationship I have is going to be my last, I kinda feel like if I'm ready for marriage etc. The dating scene gets old. I do not sleep around so it's nice to just be with him, But he seems to view relationships as a hobby of the month. I do not waslnt to get caught up with him, when it seems he's just in it for the moment. Also, he has done things that are inconsiderate and hurtful, but he has justified by saying if I would be his girlfriend... Meanwhile we're being together cuddling, sex, holding hands etc. And I'm trying to convince myself to just view it as meaningless sex. Should I just walk away?
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Logically I think you already know he isn't compatible with the lifestyle you want. The problem is that you are so attracted to the type of guy he is. Sounds like you are having the same problem a lot of women have. You are attracted to the kind of guy that isn't good relationship material. Women often get turned on by one type of guy, but have to marry a different type of guy that she isn't attracted to if she wants a relationship.
You claim you want to settle down, but are still chasing after bad boys that don't want to settle down. I don't know if there is a way to change the type of person you are attracted to, but I think that is what you will need to do if you want to be happy.1