So this girl and I having been getting to know each other for about two months now. She has shown signs that she really likes me and I like her. She is a single mom with two kids, the father is not in the children's lives at all since birth. I never really had the thought of being involved with someone with kids but I am REALLY starting to like her. My family have told me to stay away from her and so have my friends. Should I take everyone's advice or being I am an adult should just take it slow and see how it goes and maybe pursue her at some point?
Should I not pursue her?
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Are you adult enough to bear judgment and carry her responsibility as well? It isn't wrong to like her or want her. But you must also bear the aftermath considering she agrees. Besides what does she think about you? Be absolutely sure that she will reciprocate. If you can cope with it, sure go ahead. I'd consider you a good man. At the same time, you're still young and possibly have a great future ahead of you. Your family and friends are right to be concerned and warn you. Also, are you ready to be a father? Will the kids accept you on their own? Are you sure you can win them over? You've a lot to cope with man. If you're gonna pursue this, you're gonna have to go all in. So think very CAREFULLY. There's no going back if you take this step.0
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