This girl I've been dating for 2 weeks is using control tactics I think. I'd love you to clarify.
So yesterday she told me about a guy who asked her out. Then she acted like it was nothing. I asked what she told him, and she said she didn't say anything. I said ok. She then sent me a screenshot of her telling him that she has a boyfriend. We've only been seeing each other for 2 weeks. Should I be concerned? I do like her a lot, but this looks like she tried to use jealousy to reel me in...
Another thing, on new years we didn't have plans. she said she wasn't going on a trip with her family because we have plans. I went with it, coz I like her. We had a good time.
My concern is the whole declaring we have plans, or saying that I'm her boyfriend. Are these things I have to worry about?
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I mean you don't have to worry however if you don't feel the same and you don't want her to be your boyfriend you should let her know, two weeks is kinda short, I usually start seeing someone for months and then decide whether we are going to make it official. It seems to me that she's a but wishy washy and shouldn't try to make you jealous at all.. especially this soon.1