Hi everyone! I am an Indian guy who started dating an Asian girl in college. We are in the same major (Computer Science) and study and go out together. I commute (am working to pay for dorms for the next few years) and sometimes stay at her dorm. my parents flipped when they found out about her. they say that I should focus on my studies THEN get a girlfriend (and marry her). but, my friend who graduated is having a hard time meeting single women, and I feel that college is the best time for a relationship. I have actually got better grades by studying with her, and have made more friends and have even got more in shape. my dad does not object much (mostly due to work interfering with his time to talk to me), so it is mostly my mom. She even dislikes that my girlfriend is Asian.
my girlfriend is frustrated with my parents. i told her that i would be the happiest person if my mom died and my girlfriend freaked out.
what the FUCK do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Ok, I get that it's stupid of your parents (mom) to try to interfere with your relationship, especially when your girlfriend is obviously making you happy and inspiring you to be a better person. However, wishing your mother would die just so that you'd be left alone with your girlfriend is brutal and unnecessary, your girlfriend freaking out is 100% a justified reaction. Get a grip man, she's your mother. Don't say that.
You're an adult and you're allowed to make your own decision, so just try to ignore what your parents say. You can also object and point out that because of her, your grades are better and you are in better shape as well. If they refuse to listen after that, then just do your own thing. But don't wish they would die, that's just fucked up.2
Most Helpful Guy
It's always the Indian moms who are so against their kids dating others. Just continue dating her. If you really like her, don't let your parents control you or else you will lose her and then regret later on in your life.0