I know people drop things to be with their SO, but I can't see making my whole life revolve around this one person. You and your SO are together and one and it's awesome but I it's important to keep doing the things you love that made you who YOU are and they should as well. It also sounds like a lot of pressure when one person basically drops everything in their life and the other person has to adjust accordingly. I'm not dissing it or anything, it just seems weird.
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I can't see the relationship lasting if my boyfriend were to become dependent on me to maintain his own mental sanity and happiness.
Too much pressure on me, plus quality over quantity. If I knew he'd be there waiting on me 24/7, that'd probably lead to me stopping putting in much effort, wanting to leave because it's sort of an issue in terms of working on improving the relationship. Yet not wanting to leave because if I did, I'd have to worry about completely destroying him following the breakup.1