Girls - After the first date, do you continue to wait for him to start messaging you after you have exchanged a few messages?

I went on a date with a girl. Things went well, I think. We kissed at the end of the night.

However, she never texts me first. I have to always initiate the conversation. What are your thoughts?


Most Helpful Girl

  • there are some girls out there who are scared to come off as desperate... does she reply right away most of the times?

    • She does. We have been texting each other the last few days and I called her twice over the last few days. Seems like she's still interested in going on a second date.

    • Well then, lucky you my friend ;) enjoy it and don't worry. She'll come around eventually one day. It's just the fear of being desperate...

Most Helpful Guy

  • You shouldn't have to initiate the conversation every time.

    Try not talking to her for a while and see how long it takes to initiate the conversation.
    The sooner she reaches out the higher her interest are.

    • Took her about a day for her to send me a random meme lol

    • Not too bad. So next day you initiate the conversation then the next day you let her initiate and so on

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  • Pretty normal. Women don't really initiate anything at the beginning

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