I want him to show some effort, should i not text him then
- text himVote A
- dont text him, go to the gymVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Text him. Why, do you ask? He seems shy and unsure of himself, which was illustrated when he failed to kiss you. As such, I suspect your lack of response to his latest text hasn't exactly given his self-esteem a boost of confidence.
And if he is in-fact shy, then I suspect he's over-analyzing the situation, over-analyzing his behavior, and over-analyzing the possibilities of what could have gone wrong.
For this, he may be hesitant to call you so soon after.
The take-away is that since he's shy, you may need to take the initiative until he becomes comfortable with you.0
Most Helpful Girl
What would be proven by you not texting him right away?
-Is it that you have a life?
-Is it that you have other things going for you?
-Is it that you aren't desperate?
I don't think you should refrain from texting him so you don't come across as needy.
If he is actively texting you back, there's no need to try to hold yourself back.
If you like him , text him right away :)
It's perfectly fine!0
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