I am an American guy but I can't stand dating American girls, they are so confusing and annoying. Even if they like you they play "hard to get" so that they dont come off as desperate (aka they pretend to not like you so that you like them... makes perfect sense right?). Then after pretending to not like you if you dont take action, or return the favor by showing her you dont like her then its suddenly your fault. American girls never take the blame on themselves, its always my fault as the guy. Then of course its frowned upon for them to ask you out, so even though they are all about "equality" in the relationship (refusing to let you pay for dates, telling you not to treat her like a housewife, spending more time with friends then you, etc) they still refuse to go talk to a guy they like unless he talks to them first. There is this perception here that tons of confidence is the greatest thing ever so you find tons of American women who are too confident in themselves, they think they are the greatest thing on earth and their egos become hard to deal with. My friends keep telling me to give them another chance, but that ship has sailed, I realized that there are some girls in America who aren't like this, but they are hard to find. Why put up with all this crap searching everywhere for a girl that isn't annoying when I could go overseas and get a hot girl who is willing to cook, and clean for me, and who is a super sweet, nice girl with little to no effort. Seriously within 3 days of being overseas I found many girls I liked. I spent 20 years of my life in America talking to tons of girls, going on dates with some, and they all had problems, they just didn't appeal to me at all. The quality of women is so much better overseas but my buddies get mad at me for this, am I justified in what I do?
Most Helpful Girl
no. preferences are preferences, have fun!0
Most Helpful Guy
Every girl that rejected me in the past was American so yeah; I am going to date some foreign women when it comes to finally dating. I want the foreign girl to know I am hard worker: in the gym and career. I want her to know that a sweet American man like me can be someone she can be with.1