How long do you wait for sex when your dating?

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  • I don't "wait for sex". Sex is only one of the things I'm looking at usually.

    Unless the woman makes it plain she just wants a sexual relationship (that has only happened twice) I assume she wants a progressively closer relationship leading to commitment because that's what nearly all women seem to want, from me anyway.
    I go into dating because I find her attractive and i don't see any red flags and I try to get to know her in every way that matters, including sexually.

    What usually happened is she decided I would do nicely but I was not sure. Once she decides I have to make a decision to continue or not, otherwise I'm stringing her along. In most case when I show reluctance to go along with her plan she starts trying to manage me (shows her true colors so to speak) and I'm gone.

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  • There's no set number for me. Whenever it feels right, man.

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    • THAT could cause problems because what if you have sex with a man in a week because he looks good but then have sex with another man in 4 months because he doesn't? I would be pissed.

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    • So they are all physically attractive?

    • @alfonsosloan45 I have been physically attracted to all of my partners, yes.

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What Guys Said 7

  • It depends on the reason/explanation and my intentions with the lady. At my age, I date to find someone for a long term relationship. While I want to enjoy a physical relationship, I don't want to date anyone who is promiscuous. If they are waiting because of sincerely held beliefs, then I will respect that.

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  • I think your question is directed to other women? Guys are DTF anytime, anywhere. We wouldn't ask the woman out if we didn't find them attractive in the first place.

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  • I suppose until you are both ready - No fixed time parameters

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  • It varies for everyone, and no set number, but pretty quickly.

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  • Depends on her and he reasons/ beliefs and of course, if she is worth the trouble.

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  • Sex can mean many things, if you mean release... 3 dates. You you mean sex proper (p inside of v) I am willing to wait a LONG time as long as other stuff is happening.

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  • As soon as I am able to seduce her

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What Girls Said 2

  • Definitely not until they know a lot about me. I'm not just going to give my body up to just anyone.

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  • Usually about 2 months. I like to get to know a person first and feel comfortable with them.

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