I've been talking to this guy that graduated from my high school and we decided to go out this weekend. I'm just wondering how far a first date should go. Like physically (hug, kiss, hold hands, etc.)
Most Helpful Guy
There are people who have sex on a first date and there are people who do not even hold hands on a first date.
1. I don't recommend having sex on a first date (or second or third date) unless you are just looking for sex.
2. If this is a blind date, you should not feel obligated to even hold his hand.
3. If you already know this guy and you feel some attraction to him, a normal degree of affection on a first date would be something between holding hands at some point during the date and having one good night kiss at the end of the date. The kiss could be a kiss on the cheek or on the lips but very rarely would I anticipate a slobbery kiss on a first date. That is what I would expect from a girl who deserves my respect.1
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe a hug and holding hands. Leave him wanting more. ;) Keep a little mystery.1