I'm pretty short at 5'9/175 cm and I live in a very tall country where the average height for guys, if I'd have to guess would be least 6 feet / 183 cm. Most of them are blonde and more light skinned than me too, I'm a foreigner.
I dont see how I would even have a chance with any of the girls at my college forexample. Height is so important to girls. In fact its so important that a girl would reject a guy she would otherwise date for nothing else but the fact that he's short. Why would a girl choose a short guy when there are so many tall guys to choose from. It'd be like walking around in a goldmine and picking up and walking away with a bucket of mud. No girl would do that.
Do I even have a chance, I'm 22 and I've never had a girlfriend? I wouldn't be so worried if girls didn't make such a big deal about height. If it was something they only saw as a bonus, such as playing guitar. Girls like guys that that play the guitar, but no girl would decide upon whether they should date a guy based on how good he's at playing the guitar. Whereas height is for 99.9999% of girls an actual dealbreaker, which sucks.
Most Helpful Girl
175cm isn't short. Not at all. Of course, it's not as tall as some men but to many women, it is tall.
I"m 158cm so your heigh is tall for someone like me. Some might say I shouldn't give advise considering my boyfriend is ridiculously taller than me but I know plenty of men your height or even a little shorter that have girlfriends.
I even have a girlfriend who's around 172cm and her boyfriend is about the same height.
Women often like men who are taller than them but it's a preference. In the end, what counts is the man's charm.0
Most Helpful Guy
Must the the country you're living since I have no problem being short1