It's a really long story, but im going to try and make this short. Basically, my ex used to live in arizona with me, but we had a huge fight. He moved to New york, and while he was their, he messaged me after about a month. He told me he loved me for the first time when he never said that before. We have been talking for about 2 months now, and we are back together. He says all these nice things and says how much he loves me and how much i mean to him, etc. He told me that he is coming back to Arizona yesterday, telling me that "the main reason i want to come back is because of you." When he gets here, he is already seeing other girls (that he says is his friends.) And he has a lot of friends. The thing is, when he was in New York, he talked to me all the time because he didn't really have anything else going on. But now that he is in Arizona, he has a lot of friends, and is always going out to parties, etc. I feel like he wouldn't put in any effort to see me. If i do, he might just use me. If im his girlfriend, aren't i supposed to be seeing him a lot, and him not always going out with other people all the time? He never texts me anymore, he's always busy with other people. He's 19, and im 17. Please help. I can't let go... ugh
Does my ex boyfriend love me or care?
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Your just the go to girl when he's bored... no matter what if he liked you he would be with you, he isn't making an effort so why should you? 17 years old huh.. I'd kill to be that age again! heartache never lasts long...
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2- change number
3- give him as much headspace as he gives you...
4- you can do so much better0
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