Like I said in the original question. We've been dating for a little over 5 years and have been living together for 3. He doesn't show me attention or affection. When he is out with his friends or just running errands he won't text me or call. And he won't reply to my messages. When I try to talk about my feelings he just shuts down or gets angry. I don't really know what I can do to make him realize how he is treating me.
My boyfriend just doesn't seem to care anymore. Should I stay?
What Guys Said 3
why don't you talk to you him about your feelings. your desires and what you'd like to hopefully change
as for the texting when running errands and out with friends. perhaps you should allow him to have that time. unless your texts or calls are urgent there shouldn't really be a need to have text conversations when he's running errands since he'll be back0
Well, if you have been dating for 5 years then I can imagine things not being as lively as they once were. But you owe it to yourselves to try to fix the problems you are having. If you know the activities he does with his friends, maybe you could do those same activities 1 on 1 with him. Does he play games? I imagine he does. Try joining him and being competitive. Valentine's Day is soon to come and maybe he will take you out somewhere you want to go. I think he is just a little bored of the relationship right now but has no idea what to do. You guys need to talk and talk calmly. There is nothing to be angry about when your both just sharing your feelings.0
If things are not working then you should talk to him about that if he still remains the same
Then you should find another one who understands you
Life is too short to wait for the time he'll change!!!0
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