I've noticed that, for example, some guys only offer to pay the bill when out on a date, yet when they're out with a female friend, they would be happier splitting 50/50. So, when guys play the more traditional male-female chivalry act, (such as paying the bill, pulling a chair out, etc.) what's the actual reason for it? Is it because these chivalrous acts have been ingrained in society for so long that they feel it's just the right thing to do if the other person is female? Or is it moreso to appeal to certain women and make them seem more gentlemanly/attractive/interested in them?
Most Helpful Guy
I thought I had a quick answer to this but I had to stop and think a little... :I
I was gonna say that all girls get the basic nice treatment from me and that the girlfriend gets special privileges til I realized I do the same thing for all women. Seems cool but I wanna have a certain set ONLY for the lady in my life soooo in this moment, i've decided to stop being so nice to all women. xD Y'all only get the "basics", open store doors and that box of cereal on the top shelf you can't reach lol
Thanks for helping me decide :) ;)2
Most Helpful Girl
Just the pretty ones, or the ones they have interest in.0