Iv been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and everyone I know, including my family had told me to leave him. I don't know if this is a normal relationship or not because iv had a lot of bad relationships and this was the first one that I thought was too good to be true. At first he seemed to be perfect and all I wanted but now after time things have changed. It makes me so confused. One second he is prince charming but the next he is the meanest person iv ever met. He always puts me down and is so controlling. I can't go anywhere without him, he won't let me have friends (which are girls) and he always threatens to break up with me if I don't do what he says. One time I tried to break up with him and I walked out the door and he bruised my arms by grabbing me and pulling me back in and then he picked me up and carried me to the couch and threw me down and I landed on the table and got really hurt. He blames me for everything and has extreme anger issue. I could say something as simple as you have food on your shirt and he would lose it and start punching holes in the wall and screaming at me. I just don't feel like I can do any better. He has made me feel and told me that I can't get anyone better than him and acts like no one would like me.
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It's an abusive relationship.
If someone you cared about was getting treated this way by their significant other, how would you feel? Probably upset they are being treated so poorly and you'd want them to get out of the relationship.
You deserve better, and you can find someone better, someone who actually loves you. No one who truly loves you would treat you like that.5