Okay. So we both known each other since we were kids. We lived pretty close to each other. We were friends when we were kids but we pretty much didn't talk until high school. We had the same home room and when I saw him, I remembered him. He was always fat and still was. So I went up to say high and he didn't even recognize me. At all. So after I reminded him who I was, we started talking. Not that much though.
Anyway, In our last year of school, he dropped out and I haven't seen him in years after that. Until just a month ago anyway and he lost a lot of weight. So we started talking again and I was single at the time and so was he. I asked why he never asked me out and he said that we wouldn't work and I wouldn't like him. I asked why and he said we share nothing in common.
Now, I've had a somewhat rocky past. I did drugs, slept with not the best people. Just bad choices and I know that. So when I asked what we don't have in common and he listed these things.
Never had a girlfriend.
Is still a virgin as in he's never kissed, had sex or even seen a woman naked before. (He's 22.)
He has no friends. (Which I don't really mind.)
He called himself a nerd because he likes video games, anime, guns, card games. Stuff like that.
So yeah. We don't really have anything in common but I still want to date him and I've told him this but he just refuses. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Is this what happens to women after I fuck them? I kinda just assumed they got swallowed up by the Earth or something.
But for real. Lemme get this straight. you got passed about like a bong by 'not the best' dudes for years, and now the decent respectful guy wants nothing to do with you? What a surprise.
This guy is so shy and nervous and inexperienced that he's saying no to you because he's embarrassed.
He sees you for the slut that you are and wants nothing to do with your junkie cumdumpster ass.
I'll still fuck you though. You're not totally worthless. That heartbreak and depression really turns me on.0
Most Helpful Girl
He has no self esteem. He's a true dedicated monk now.0