I've known this guy for a month. In the beginning he would message me often and after the first two times we met up we didn't talk for about a week. The 2nd date wasn't great (we went to the movies). After the week with no contact he invited me to his house and we had a great time (so I thought). He cooked me dinner and dessert. We just sat on his couch watching TV, there was a little touching going on.
When I got home I texted him, both agreed we had a good time and then we barely talked for the rest of the week. Until Thursday I texted to check in with him and on Friday I did the same. He seemed his usual self and he invited me over again. This time around there was lots of flirting, play fighting, touching and we made out. I texted him to tell him I had got home safely and the next day he sent me a picture of the dessert he had made.
Other than that we haven't spoken in three days. Its making me a little paranoid, it's like each time we become more intimate he backs away. Or maybe it's just me?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me like this guy is a little bit awkward/inexperienced at the dating game. You never take a girl out for movies during the early dating process, horrible, horrible idea.
I think he's just not very good at this sort of thing. He might not like you so much, it's possible, but only way to find out for sure is maybe make a move, invite him over to your house.
If he's all goofy and awkward, you could help him a bit by snuggling up close to him (don't have to like give him a lap-dance, just whatever you're comfortable with, like just leaning on him a little bit).0
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Most Helpful Girl
I think you're over analyzing. You've only hung out a few times so he's keeping his distance for now. Just keep hanging out with him when it works for both of you and let things develop as they will (or will not). You're not emotionally invested at this point so try not to make such a big deal out of it.1