Why is it men are not allowed to be insecure or lack confidence?

[RinXD]

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I'm talking lacking confidence cause of looks or being insecure about them because women before have walked all over that confidence or self esteem

[ak666]

"I'm talking lacking confidence cause of looks or being insecure about them because women before have walked all over that confidence or self esteem"

Don't care about women turning you down. It's not a big deal. It only becomes a big deal if you build some dream behind it, getting so emotionally invested into the outcomes. A negative outcome, even the harshest kind of rejection, won't be a big deal if you were never that invested in the first place -- okay, next girl.

Apathy and confidence can be somehow blurred. I have a friend who just has a "whatever" mindset to life in general. He owns a shop and doesn't have any kind of schedule, just opens it whenever he feels like, closes it when he doesn't feel like working. And he gets so much female attention, because he can just walk straight up to any woman and just start casually talking without being remotely invested in whether she likes him or not.

If building a positive, glowing outlook of yourself seems too hard initially, try that instead: apathy. "Whatever, that girl didn't like me, I'll try another one."

Persistence pays off here.

[DasVoz]

It's an evolutionary adaptation for women to favor strong men that can provide. Almost everything we are benefitting from today was built on the shoulders of strong men who took risks and courageously battled attrition. Although Feminism is attempting to alter this narrative, it is clear what being a man implies.

Men are allowed to be insecure and lack confidence. Just don't expect to have babies.

[Anonymous]

They are allowed to but, because of evolutionary reasons women are attracted to more confident and less insecure men. They are seen as protectors. As we are evolving and our minds our opening these gender oriented barriers are breaking. Girls also like sensitive guys. But confidence is something even guys desire in a girl. It is just attractive when you see someone love themselves enough to not be insecure. It's easier to love someone who loves them self and is strong enough to hide their insecurities. We all have insecurities, some more, some less. That's perfectly normal.

[Purplelove010]

Regardless of gender, everyone should be encouraged to feel good about themselves. You wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel insecure and less confident. You should be happy to have a person in your life that is going to build you up when you are feeling down.
You also should never take your insecurities out on another person just because of your past relationships. If you are going to move on to someone new you need to be willing to let go of the past.

[Ghosted]

they are allowed to but it will hinder their chances in the dating field a lot more than it would for an insecure female. kinda like how unattractive looks is more of a problem for women in the dating field than men. confidence will usually always give u ur best chance, so try hard to find a better balance in strength bro

[sherbearee]

"I'm talking lacking confidence cause of looks or being insecure about them because women before have walked all over that confidence or self esteem"

Which is why you let neither woman or man walk over your confidence :)
Surround yourself with more people who boost it!

[Mrharmon201]

Well according to most of you women. You find a lack of confidence very unattractive. Even though it's hard to be confident sometimes when you constantly are getting rejected.

[Yanoa_Yanza]

Not allowed? Since when?

[takumii]

Wait.. Isn't that a good thing?

[Whorworld]

No, you can beg and kiss ass why not?

[BuchitaBuchys]

Who says you're not allowed?

[justbanANNAz]

Who said?

[Anonymous]

The hell u talkin bout?