I went out on a date with a girl a few days ago and we really hit it off and connected. I thought things were going well and then she told me she was getting ready for a date 2 nights later. I was kinda surprised since I was mister gentleman and I didn't think she wanted to go out with anyone else, but whatever. We aren't exclusive. So when I found out about it I told her I hope she has fun and her only words were, "don't be butt hurt about it." I took offense to that. My ex who I am really good friends with and doesn't want to see me get hurt just said, "she's a bitch forget about her." Then the girl texted me about the date and said they went to the same place and did the same thing. I got annoyed hearing that. So the next day she texted me and I told her how I felt about what she said and that it was rude. She apologized for how it came across and said that she didn't mean it the way it sounded. My ex doesn't trust her, but I'm not sure. I've been hurt in the past. Should I trust her or not?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, if I were to date several guys at the same time - which I don't - I would not mention one to the other... And even if we went to the exact same place, I wouldn't go and report to the other guy. You're right, it's extremely rude.
She's immature and trying to make you jealous or play the miss popular, like telling you she has that many options right on your face. Do you need that kind of thing?
It's not about trust, you're apparently still in the playing phase.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well your ex could be putting doubts in your mind. Your ex may still be in to you. Just won't admit it. Like you said you to are exclusive. She can do what she wants. If you like her tell her it's either him or me. Cause being a love triangle just leads to someone getting hurt. Go with what you think is right.0