I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months. We're exclusive with each other, we're very close, he spends almost every night with me and almost every second of every weekend. We're not in a relationship on facebook and I know to some guys that's not that big of a deal. I think it's cute and special and romantic and it matters to me. Do you think it's okay for me to ask him if we could put it on facebook that we're dating? I'm kind of scared he'll say no, do you have any advice for me if he does say no? That would make me feel like it's because there's girls on facebook that he doesn't want seeing it, you know? It would make me suspicious and paranoid. So I guess is that okay for me to ask and how should I handle the situation if he says no?
Most Helpful Guy
Of course you are allowed to ask him that. And he is also allowed to reject that request without you being pissed off. Some people still value privacy and do consider it cute or romantic at all.
If he currently has "single" on his status then I think it would be appropriate to remove that. Personally I have a blank status and always will. It has nothing to do with hiding or being ashamed. I just don't need the world to know about my personal life. Those people I care about would already know.
How to handle a "no" ?
Simply say: "Okay" and drop it.0
Most Helpful Girl
I mean you can ask him but it really depends if he likes his life private, speaking from a girls perspective when I had Facebook and in relationship I really didn't want all my life on social media and loved the fact that yes I could post pictures of us however it was only up to me and I like my life private period. If he says no, it could literally just be because he wants his life private. Doesn't mean he's hiding you0