I've just started dating this girl
whos 29, I'm 25, one thing that's been on my mind is why is she still single? She's pretty and smart and fun so how come nobody has locked her down yet? Is this a common thought? And why isn't she dating someone her age who could possibly commit more tran I could?
Most Helpful Girl
Definitely not. I'm 26 and I would hope that a guy wouldn't think I had problems because I was single at 29. Sometimes things happen in life and you dont' get settled down right away.
I have many friends who already have kids who are in grade school. They had them in high school. I feel so out of the loop.
It's not that I dont want kids. It's just that I haven;t found a guy I can safely have kids with. All the guys I have met have been really bad. And put me through a lot.
Not everyone is lucky enough to meet someone early in life. Some of us have to wait a long time. It's both frustrating and anxiety inducing. Hopefully you can look past that.
There definitely are some really great people out there who are single and over the age of 22. I like to consider myself a 'best kept secret' because I know I am a good person. But no one has picked up on that yet. They would rather date someone who is a bit more wild and flaky because they are seen as more exciting.
So in the meantime I am building my mini empire lol. I have a good job and am working hard on my goals. Hopefully some day a guy will want to join me on my quest for a family and a mini empire lol.0
Most Helpful Guy
probably because there's more to it than just being pretty and smart and fun0