WTF is wrong with this guy? Why is he even talking to you SMH 😷 Why do think girls his own age won't date him? What a creep 😷 Date someone your own age or WAYYYYY closer to it once you turn 18, maybe 7yrs
You're on a date, he does more than you wanted to happen. You say No! He doesn't hear it. He says "Sorry, sorry, I couldn't stop or I'd have got painful blue balls. It's our secret now." afterwards. Or he just moves on, a notch more on his bed post.
@jacquesvol I know what rape is. This guy is accusing a man of being a rapist when he never met the girl. Do I have to tell you about the stigma of false rape accusations? Can we please take it seriously. As far as we know, the guy raped no one. She specifically said he would wait. How is it rape if she consents and is of age?
@JuicyBrain no I'm just alluding to the fact that it us fucking creepy for a 30 year old to want to get a 15 year on his good side, charm her up and whatnot to the point where they go on a date and she POSSIBLY gets taken advantage of and doesn't understand whats right and whats wrong for the guy to be doing with her. It's not safe ir healthy for this stuff to happen. There are thousands of WOMEN, not girls this guy should be trying to get to know within the age of say 24-35 instead. How the fuck does he think its right to chat up a 15 year old girl.
So what I'm saying asker is leave this guy be, its not good, its scary. It's great you want a boyfriend or similar, but get to know guys in your classes or other activities you do that are your age.
@JuicyBrain I was only implying it could happen. The only reason a 30 year old guy would try get with a 15 year old (even if he waits til she's of legal age) is to use her lack of experience and common sense to his benefit.
That was pure speculation. It could happen even if he was her age. In fact, anybody going on a date could be suspected of potential date rape. It's called prejudice...
I understand & agree with most of what you say. My problem was with the reference to rape. You feel angered by what that guy does even if it's legal, so you try to associate him to rape as retribution and that's not OK in my book.
@JuicyBrain ok yes a threw that out a bit casually, I just think its really inappropriate for a 30 y/o guy to be chatting up a 15 y/o girl cause it makes one question their intentions. Just seems like he's going for someone more vulnerable than someone his own age.
First off that's just creepy. Do your parents even know? Second, probably not. You're in different stages of your life. He's a grown man. You're nowhere near grown yet.
He just sounds like a preset or and no offense you're young so you don't know any better I bet if some 16 year old guy acted kindly the way this man does you'd be in love with him too. Plus tell your parents about him You'll see how quickly they'll cut off contact of you with him
:/ don't do that to yourself... just grab a boy and learn about the beautifull things about life and share those experiences with other's that feel the same curiosity...
nope don't do it. i could tell you my whole life story but I won't. So please from 11 year old me to 15 year old you. Don't do it. Wait for it to be a healthy relationship with someone your age. I am not 11 anymore haha! I am 20.
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Please don't ignore me! I mean what I say! Trust me I know. This is something that was so hard to admit when I was younger. I know how your feeling. But please take me inconsideration. If you ever need an ear I'll be here. hahah I rhyme! lol
I am sorry. I can't believe this is still happening even today 2016. Trust me you are better off with someone your own ages. Since you can learn things together. If you don't get a boyfriend don't be discourage. Smile and read a good book... life is to short to be worrying about a boy. You have to be the main character of your own life. You first before anything else. I care and I have so much experience in this you wouldn't believe it. (: Again, if you need anyone to talk to about this than please talk to me. (: (: (: I can open sad things from my life and tell you my side of the story. I could also recommed you a movie about it too. Its similar to what you are going to. It would be ashame if a young lady as yourself stay with a 30 year old. Don't lower your standards believe you are lowering your standards. okay bye! Follow me if you like.
I'm 20 and even find people who are below 18 immature and aren't interested, he is a proper gimp! If i knew one of my mates were getting with a 15 year old I'd go mental.
the age difference does not matter long as you are sporting each chother i see no problem with that but you need to what intill your 18 or 21 to have sex depending on the state you live in it could be consderd rape if your under 21
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WTF is wrong with this guy? Why is he even talking to you SMH 😷
Why do think girls his own age won't date him? What a creep 😷 Date someone your own age or WAYYYYY closer to it once you turn 18, maybe 7yrs
I wish you well Hun ☺️
Aww thank you lady💟🍇😊
Omg just gonna throw it out there... date rape! What a sicko!
Whats is date rape
I never heared of it
You're on a date, he does more than you wanted to happen. You say No!
He doesn't hear it.
He says "Sorry, sorry, I couldn't stop or I'd have got painful blue balls. It's our secret now." afterwards.
Or he just moves on, a notch more on his bed post.
@jacquesvol okay then eww its sound pretty gross
Rape IS gross.
@jacquesvol yes totally agree
Are you saying he raped her?
Or are you just bent on calling him a rapist because he does something you don't agree with?
@JuicyBrain
@JuicyBrain
criminal.findlaw.com/.../statutory-rape.html
@jacquesvol I know what rape is. This guy is accusing a man of being a rapist when he never met the girl. Do I have to tell you about the stigma of false rape accusations? Can we please take it seriously. As far as we know, the guy raped no one. She specifically said he would wait. How is it rape if she consents and is of age?
@JuicyBrain no I'm just alluding to the fact that it us fucking creepy for a 30 year old to want to get a 15 year on his good side, charm her up and whatnot to the point where they go on a date and she POSSIBLY gets taken advantage of and doesn't understand whats right and whats wrong for the guy to be doing with her. It's not safe ir healthy for this stuff to happen. There are thousands of WOMEN, not girls this guy should be trying to get to know within the age of say 24-35 instead. How the fuck does he think its right to chat up a 15 year old girl.
So what I'm saying asker is leave this guy be, its not good, its scary. It's great you want a boyfriend or similar, but get to know guys in your classes or other activities you do that are your age.
All valid concerns
As far as I know though, he did not ask to see her and said he would wait until she is of age. So saying date rape is pushing it a little bit...
@JuicyBrain I was only implying it could happen. The only reason a 30 year old guy would try get with a 15 year old (even if he waits til she's of legal age) is to use her lack of experience and common sense to his benefit.
That was pure speculation. It could happen even if he was her age. In fact, anybody going on a date could be suspected of potential date rape. It's called prejudice...
@JuicyBrain but charming up and potentially dating a 15 y/o when you're 30 is not cool. Imagine how you'd feel as the parent of the kid...
I understand & agree with most of what you say. My problem was with the reference to rape. You feel angered by what that guy does even if it's legal, so you try to associate him to rape as retribution and that's not OK in my book.
@JuicyBrain ok yes a threw that out a bit casually, I just think its really inappropriate for a 30 y/o guy to be chatting up a 15 y/o girl cause it makes one question their intentions. Just seems like he's going for someone more vulnerable than someone his own age.
He's a fucking pedophile so I'm giving you a 0% chance of success.
Okay no problem💟
No its not because you're a minor and he will go to jail. Both of you need to find people in your own age range.
Thank thank you😘😘😘😊😊😊
Yup.
First off that's just creepy. Do your parents even know?
Second, probably not. You're in different stages of your life. He's a grown man. You're nowhere near grown yet.
My parents dont know
They should
should o really tell them we been chatting since September of 2015😪
Okay, and they'll say the same thing everyone else is: he's a pedo.
🆗bye now im going to tell them the truth when they come home😳
Okay, good luck
im gonna need it
Why are you even chatting to a dude 15 years your age
Stick to someone closer your age
Okay thanks😞
He just sounds like a preset or and no offense you're young so you don't know any better
I bet if some 16 year old guy acted kindly the way this man does you'd be in love with him too.
Plus tell your parents about him
You'll see how quickly they'll cut off contact of you with him
Okay thanks friend⭐
Possible. Dont think it will.
You ll change dramatically in the next few years. He won't.
okay thank you
Yeah, it can work, let's see if he'll keep his promises until you're legal.
Okay thanks dude👣👥😊
I'm gonna put this gently because you are young.
FUCK NO!!
okay thanks💟
:/ don't do that to yourself... just grab a boy and learn about the beautifull things about life and share those experiences with other's that feel the same curiosity...
Hey thank you
you'll find another hot guy soon... This guy is shady.
okay Thanks☺
That's too old. Just look for a guy your age or closer to your age.
okay thank you😪
I think you're too young for him. He's literally double your age. By the time you're 18, he'll be 33.
thats a strong point
nope don't do it. i could tell you my whole life story but I won't. So please from 11 year old me to 15 year old you. Don't do it. Wait for it to be a healthy relationship with someone your age. I am not 11 anymore haha! I am 20.
Please don't ignore me! I mean what I say! Trust me I know. This is something that was so hard to admit when I was younger. I know how your feeling. But please take me inconsideration. If you ever need an ear I'll be here. hahah I rhyme! lol
Okay im gonna stop chatting get self back together
I am sorry. I can't believe this is still happening even today 2016. Trust me you are better off with someone your own ages. Since you can learn things together. If you don't get a boyfriend don't be discourage. Smile and read a good book... life is to short to be worrying about a boy. You have to be the main character of your own life. You first before anything else. I care and I have so much experience in this you wouldn't believe it. (: Again, if you need anyone to talk to about this than please talk to me. (: (: (: I can open sad things from my life and tell you my side of the story. I could also recommed you a movie about it too. Its similar to what you are going to. It would be ashame if a young lady as yourself stay with a 30 year old. Don't lower your standards believe you are lowering your standards. okay bye! Follow me if you like.
Thanks i will
Ok (:
I'm 20 and even find people who are below 18 immature and aren't interested, he is a proper gimp! If i knew one of my mates were getting with a 15 year old I'd go mental.
okay😪😪
Any 30 year old that wants to chat up and get with a 15 year old isn't a guy you want to be with.
Okay Thanks☺
You're welcome.
🍇whoo hoo😊
Difficult, very difficult. and not only because of the law.
hmm okay😊
the age difference does not matter long as you are sporting each chother i see no problem with that but you need to what intill your 18 or 21 to have sex depending on the state you live in it could be consderd rape if your under 21
well in Maryland the consent of sex is 16 years old
Thank you sir😍
in Iowa where i live the age of consent is 21 years old and 21 smoke and 21 to drink and 21 to gamble.
Wow i didn't know that
only law in baltimore is 16year old can. Have sex and get piercings and tattoos here yep
https://i.imgur.com/SaGnra9.jpg
Just ask yourself why he doesn't date a 30 yo woman.
Okay 'll ask him
You don't really need his answer to figure out why a mature man would not date a mature woman but an underage teen, do you?
No sir😪
he was your age when you were born
think about that
okay. i need to think i feel so dumb faced