i think that whole "looks aren't everything " argument about dating is crap because i see so many good looking dudes with pretty girls and i have no luck with them as well since i'm ugly.
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The truth is looks AREN'T everything, but just because they "aren't" everything, doesn't mean it's the ONLY thing... in fact that's just the superficial part of being attracted... "visually"... as far as the female brain goes, what's most important is how you captivate a girl's interest... so if you can't keep her interested, your looks did not serve you good, and you must start again with another girl... who is more compatible with YOUR personality and likes. Not all girls are into the same type of guys, or attracted to the same type of guys.
Just like there's very shallow and superficial men, there's also stuck up superficial women! BUT the majority of girls can fall harder for someone's personality than for someone's "looks"! ... so if your personality sucks! or you're too shy or too mad at the world, ... then it will be harder for you to attract anyone at all if you add to that an ugly body or an ugly face.. so you see... You must work with what you have! and make the best of it. Do not feel bitter and start being a hateful person just because you've been rejected. Perhaps you're just attracted to the wrong type of girl... and by wrong, I mean the girls you're going for are the exact girls who DON"T go for guys like you... and the girls that WOULD go for you, are probably the type of girls you NEVER look at.
Anyway: Side note! Our brains do NOT work like yours. We cannot just be satisfied by looking at a pretty face or a nice body and fall in love... Although it can be important on some level... because there MUST be at least some type of physical attraction, the way you make a girl feel is key.0