I dont attract other lesbians because apparently I "look straight"?

I never get hit on or approached by girls. I am so so shy and have social anxiety so I am not yet at the point where I can do the approaching. How do I make myself more approachable to lesbians? (preferably without wearing plaid, converse and rainbows, or getting several cats <--actual suggestions i have received - nothing wrong with any of those, but they aren't me)


Most Helpful Girl

  • Just flirt like you would with anyone smile, make eye contact, laugh. Just have confidence in yourself I know it can be hard but confidence is sexy. No one is attracted to insecurities even though we. all have them. There a ton of things I hate about myself but I don't go voicing them.


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 1

  • Go on gay tinderπŸ’πŸ»

    • I thought about it, to be honest, but you need facebook to use tinder. I despise facebook

    • Show All
    • Yes but I'm not 21 so I can't go to bars! Now I know how you guys feel having to ask girls out and possibly face rejection. Kind of want to be straight right about now haha

    • πŸ˜‚ I don't know why any girl would be straight girls Are perfect πŸ’πŸ» it's not so bad asking someone out actually I've never been rejected by a girl πŸ™‚ Plus this might be offensive im sorry but if you look straight that's a compliment cause the stereotype lesbian is chubby short hair kinda manly ya know so I'd think it means you're pretty πŸ’πŸ»

What Girls Said 0

The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!