Been dating this guy for a couple of months, and we have a great time together. Last weekend, I wanted to go to his place to spend the night with him. His phone was off so I figured I might as well show up there. When I get there, he was sleeping in bed, with a girl next to him. As shocked as I was, I left his apartment without saying a word. He told me the day after that it was his ex girlfriend visiting him from another country. He claims she is on a surprise visit and will stay for the whole week, abd that they had not had sex, and that he was really sorry. I told him that I do not accept that they share the same bed, and after him not replying I texted him and said that he better figure something out if he wants me in his life. And that I am not going to reach out to him anymore. I am really hurt, and don´t know what to do. I do want to believe him, but he makes it so difficult for me when he doesn´t contact me or try to meet me so we could talk... I feel helpless and insecure. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
He is lying lol.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should leave, what kind of boyfriend doesn't tell his current girlfriend what's happening in his life, he intentionally didn't tell you. AND SORRY but the bed isn't the only place where she could've slept, I don't trust him and you shouldn't either.0