Like do guys ever have feelings or something? Like every guy I've talked to would say they like me and make me like them then they'd ignore me like I don't exist. So I'm wondering do guys ever actually like someone or do they not have feelings at all and they just want sex so that's the only reason they'd date someone or like they just like to "play" with people's emotions
Most Helpful Guy
Can't speak for all guys but I was the type initially who put all the chips on the table for a girl, building dreams of marrying her, having kids, planning ahead all the way to our graves (let's be buried together!) the moment she said she loved me and would agree to marriage.
Then got the most soul-crushing heartbreak ever, wept like a little girl into a pillow every night for about a year, in public I wouldn't cry but would drink like a suicidal maniac, wake up in my own vomit several days later after sleeping for like 96 hours straight suffering from extreme dehydration, then do it all over again.
Then tried sleeping with girls trying to fall in love again, didn't work, got more drunk, drink drink drink drink drink.
Then got over that kind of stupid phase, then fell in love with a girl and got married, and that kind of sums up my whole romantic life.
Anyone, dating is complicated and always somewhat scary, no matter how confident and easy it starts to become as you ask a girl out for the thousandth time. People behave in all sorts of funny ways here, it doesn't mean they're made of steel and have no feelings.1
Most Helpful Girl
well... they're human, right?
Of course guys get feelings too.0