I really care about her and she's great but I just dont feel its anymore :/ and its sucks so much :(
Most Helpful Girl
I think there is a reason.
You just mentioned that you don't "feel" it anymore.
If you think the feeling of infatuation is going to stick around for many years, then you are fooled.
Every relationship starts off with this "head over heels" feelings that eventually dies out.
You have to make an effort for your relationship to keep it exciting, and keep it blossoming.
The test of whether you really care for someone or not, is based on the fact of whether you choose to run away when the infatuation stage as died, or if you stick around to blossom with your significant other.
Love eventually becomes just a feeling of realizing that you'd do anything for that other person.
Expecting it to be some fairy tale or fantasy is unrealistic.
I'm just preparing you , for future relationships you may enter into to.
Many people who are new to relationships mistake this for losing interest, but in fact it's not, you're just entering into a different phase of your relationship.
Most Helpful Guy
so you have a reason1