I went on a date with this girl, we had a great time and kissed at the end. Later we arranged to go on another date, but she asked to postpone and then explained that she likes me but her ex wants to get back together, but that she doesn't trust him and always makes mistakes when she's with him, and that when they went out he would not turn up to dates/made no effort, and that she doesn't know what to do. I tried to be impartial and give her good advice, she then said that she might see if he can prove himself. We went out just as friends and spent all evening talking flirting and having a great time. She said he wasn't her boyfriend but more than just a friends with benefits arrangement. Should I tell her that I like her and would like to see her more, so that she knows that I am interested and am a prospect?
P. S. She said that she didn't think the arrangement would last long.
- Tell herVote A
- Don't tell her, wait until she's ended thingsVote B
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This is a tough situation. It certainly wouldn't hurt to tell her you like her and want to keep seeing her, but if she's even willing to give her ex another chance that means he's still on her mind. It's even somewhat unfair for her to decide to go out with you knowing she's thinking about him. Be careful, this situation sounds like it could hurt you more than help. Can't be 100% sure, but still be careful.1