Before you call me a selfish spoiled brat, please hear me out. I have a crush on this guy and vice versa. I bought him a gift and he did not so much as say Happy Valentine's and no gift. I am beyond angry. It could be more issues and that was the straw that broke the camel's back. It is very hard for some of us women to watch other women get flowers and candy. I get to sit there and watch their happiness. I feel happy for them but I feel a big whole in my heart at the same time. It hurts. In my mind, I equate it with how much he loves me. Help. Thanks
- Should i be angry?Vote A
- Or not?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
The girl I'm currently dating didn't get me anything and I'm not even remotely mad. I made her a Valentine Card and bought tickets for us to see Deadpool, we had a great night, and that's all that matters to me! Call me old fashion, but I like to think it's more about making a memory than the money or the gifts. I spent only $10 for our Valentine's Day, and with where we're at in our relationship, I don't think it could have gone any better :)
I can see where you're coming from though. You put some thought, time, and money into a gift you felt was meaningful, yet he didn't put any effort into anything in return to show his interest in you. Same thing happened to me. I spent hours brainstorming, searching, and editing her Valentine's Day Card, and looked online everyday to check for when the Deadpool tickets were available for preorder in order to get the best seats. But I didn't get anything in return. I can't imagine how you'd react if you were in my situation lol. I guess it depends on your level of expectations. It can also depend on the type of person that they might be. The girl I'm dating has yet to text me first or plan a date for us. Even though I'm doing practically everything, we still enjoy our time together.
And finally, like everybody else is saying, you guys only have a crush on each other. He probably wasn't expecting a Valentine's Day gift from you and in return didn't think to get you anything since you guys really aren't anywhere in your relationship yet. From what I've read, you two didn't even go out! I feel you shouldn't be mad at him. If you two claim to truly have a crush on each other, then this is no reason to just give up on him.
Good luck with your situation :)4
Most Helpful Girl
... It's a little deeper than a crush...
It seems as I am sitting here analyzing the sticky situation at hand, a Huge sour ball in your mouth and all that hasn't been exactly a ball, You are The Only One with a Heart of Gold and even took this Bold Initiative to Have... Bought him a gift.
I am assuming that you both are Not an Item and with this being Said, he has it in his own Head... You are the Only One who is making an effort.
Let his be a little lesson in Life and in Love... Friendship First, then Love from Above with Two hearts who Beat as One.
Good luck. xx1