I hooked up with this guy twice...both times we were both drunk...the first time he never spoke w/me after the fact. Then we ran into each other one drunken night and we hooked up again...and since then have not really spoken. Hey, I;m a big girl..it was purely sex...I was and am fine with that. But why does he have to be such an ass and not even talk? But, yet he intentionally let's me know he is around...it is obvious he wants me to see him...but yet he won't really talk to me...what is up with that? He has a girlfriend now...so, why flaunt himself in front of me? I barely can even say Hi anymore...I used to smile and was very friendly...but he was such an ass I stopped being so friendly and now this? what is his deal?
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he's an asshole. you met an asshole. his girlfriend probably doesn't know you hooked up.
if counselling helps, go for it.
the thing is, know for next time, get to know a guy better. there are a lot of jerks out there who just want to use a girl for sex. then they cheat on their girlfriend with the girl they hurt or try to hurt.
i heard of my friend in the same situation.
they didn't have sex but she found out about him right away and his parents even agreed that what he did was 'right'. sh*t.0