I'm 22 and completely inexperienced with dating, sex and relationships. I spoke to this guy once at a party after vaguely knowing each through friends for about a year. He got my number and has asked to go for a drink. Is this the 2016 version of an actual date? I know he was casual with an older woman last year, is he going to expect sex, just a kiss, other stuff or nothing?
What does a guy expect after going for a drink?
What Guys Said 2
I would think it's kinda of a feeling out moment to see if you two can make it to an actual date by a no strings attached casual sit down with drinks.1
I don't now, I never really lived that lifestyle, I was either in a relationship during my twenties or drinking to forget Iraq an accident or two or my kids, ended up fighting or waking up on the street or home alone. It seems like it though, people are fast today, its kind of disgusting to be honest.1
What Girls Said 1
Oh no, why do people agree to go on dates to bars?
The bar date: alcohol, inhibited ambitions and a loud atmosphere that limits potential conversation. I'm not saying he's a sleaze who is trying to get you drunk, maybe it's normal for people to go to bars on first dates, but he definitely didn't pick a great destination. It could be that he prefers that kind of laid back atmosphere or he wants to keep things casual. Either way, on a first date you are expected to do NOTHING, even if he tries to tell you otherwise because it is up to YOU what you do, not him.
If you decide to go, my advice is to not get drunk and buy your own drinks, for safety purposes.1
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