i'm 14 (8th grade) and this kid likes me and i like him and so we've been talking and he's like talking about hanging out and stuff and calling me baby and babe, but i kind of hate it. since 6th grade this is what i thought i wanted, but i don't know if it is anymore. is it the wrong person? is it just because it's my first relationship? or could it be that i just am not a relationship person? advice?
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I think it is too soon to decide whether you already relationship person or not. What is not too soon is to decide that you don't want to be treated in any manner that makes you feel uncomfortable. And that is mature. You want a relationship but you don't want a relationship where you feel put down or less than. I think you doing fine. I think your sensitivity is correct. I think that opening up on this website real issues is superduper, mature and correct. And I believe that this guy is the wrong guy for you. That's my opinion. But I want you to think of how I got to that opinion. It's you who first analyzed the relationship and decided you hate it. You express your feelings and nothing is better than telling it like it is from your point of view. After you express your feelings then you asked the questions. By doing that you sort of came to your own answer. This guy is not for you. And finally courtesy of my grandfather who made me listen to all sorts of stuff when I was growing up