Girls, how would you react and feel if a guy said 'let's take it slow and just see how things go'?

A couple of months ago myself and this girl had the talk about what was happening. I pretty much said 'take things slow and just see how things go'.
We hook up and have hung out since then but it really feels quite casual and it doesn't feel like we have any momentum or that she's opening up to me too much yet even though we clearly like each other. Would those comments make her defensive?


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  • Yes. She's afraid of opening up too much for fear of scaring you off after you told her you wanted to take things slow. In her mind, she'd open up and then you wouldn't want anything to do with her. I think you should talk to her about this. Tell her how much you care and how you want to be a couple.


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