So I met this girl and we talked on the phone almost every night and text everyday when we first met. We are 3 hrs from each other which does make it hard. I drove down to see her and we hooked up the first night. After that weekend. We continued to text. I would text her every morning good morning and good night. but as the days continued she stopped answering my calls and taking forever to text me back. She is a full time student and has a lot of homework. But it didn't stop her before. I went the following weekend and took her on a date. She told me I was crazy for wanting to drive down so far to see her. She would always answer my texts but she seemed to be loosing interest and I don't know why. Than she told me that she couldn't do long distance. That she tried once before but it didn't work. I told her i would move if it came down to it. She told me she started talking to her ex again and didn't want to be in a relationship right now cuz even though they are friend she doesn't know where it might go. I texted her everyday but she texted me just the same. I talked to her about doing a bunch of stuff with her. I don't know if I messed up and pushed her away.
Did I mess up and show too much attention?
What Girls Said 2
She clearly isn't sure if she wants to start a relationship with you due to her being indecisive about her ex. Just let her know that you will back off for a while to give her time to think about what she wants.0
What Guys Said 1
Yes you pushed way too much and now she is not interested. She is giving you bull shit excuses to be nice and reject you.
Best bet is to leave her alone (who knows she might reach out one day) and learn from this situation. So the next time you talk to a girl you will play it smooth and not come on so strong.0
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