I'm not going to give details, but basically I have been having sex with a guy who is not looking for a relationship right now ( we are 22) and I keep returning for sex even though I am well aware he won't fall for me no matter how "beautiful and smart" I am.
I just love being with him that much.
But I know he is talking and possibly sleeping with other women even if he tells me he isn't. I can't trust him because he doesn't have emotional attachment to me so why would he care if he lies to me or not. My friends and family say it's ridiculous, I deserve so much more, I'm selling myself short... But I can't describe the amount of comfort and enjoyment when I am with him. I've tried with other guys to get this feeling and it just makes me miss him more. How pathetic right? I keep going around in circles.. One day I'm over him and disgusted, the next.. He makes me just crumble to pieces with adoration. I only see him every couple weeks too. He's in my head or I'm in his bed, and I don't know how to stop this when he is what I want so much.
I would really appreciate honest and helpful answers. I've never been in this situation before.
Most Helpful Guy
Stop giving the milk for free. You have set your worth and he will NEVER see you for anything more than that now.
You are a wet hole to masturbate with. It's as simple as that.
If you truly felt you deserve much more, then you would not allow yourself to be a tool for sex. You would not keep going back to a guy who openly and up front told you you would not be anything other than.
You are living in a fantasy you created for yourself. This will not end the way you want it to. You know this. SO what are you wasting your time getting further into it for? You are setting yourself up for massive hurt and disappointment.2
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Girl
He Uses and Abuses You and is Not Only Bedding Down Other Women here, dear, He is Mistaking your Kindness for Weepy Weakness.
Listen to Your Friendly Loving Family Who know Best from the Rest and Yes... You DO Deserve Better.
Some Girls Feel the More in Store and Mean and Dirty a man is to Them, the Better they Love it and Become Obsessed by Them, Under their Wicked Hell Spell.
Dump him, Move on. You are an Enabler to Continue to Let this Loser have His Sweet ass cake and Eat it... Two and then Some.
Good luck. xx1
- Show AllShow Less