Do you believe it is the guys job to do the asking out?


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  • Asking out as in asking for dates and stuff... no definitely not. However I still think it's cute if a guy asks the actual "will you be my girlfriend" question first. I'm slightly more traditional when it comes to things like that.

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    • I get what you mean, it can be tough.

    • Ah yes, I don't have a problem with a girl asking a guy out, but Im not asking a guy out. I still love the "guy asks out girl", traditional, cute thing. I don't know why, but i think its adorable and rlly sweet. so, no it's not a guy's job, but i think its rlly sweet if they do

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  • No it shouldn't be, girls should at least come part of the way if they want to be approached lol its like "omg why can't he read my mind, why won't boys get it?" sometimes it seems.

    But with that said, I think it's good to think of it as if it's all on you. And everything is in your power to control!

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What Girls Said 27

  • No. If men were the only ones meant to ask people out then their penises would do the talking. Is it endearing to be asked out? Yes, it is, but it shouldn't be gender specific.

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  • No, Both parties can ask one another out. If you only wait for the guy to ask you out then it is going to turn into a waiting game and no one has got time for that! If ya like someone just ask em out :) no harm in trying.
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  • I believe it's anyone's job who wants to.

    My opinion is: If you like a person, and never ask them out, then you have no one but yourself to blame when nothing happens between you two. If you want to date a person, go for them. Or don't, but then don't get mad at them for never asking you.

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  • Most guys are bigger than me even if they're tiny so I'd leave it up to them if they can catch me. I'm not saying it is but that's my reason for not asking guys out. I'm still a virgin and you can tell by my first sentence that I'm not trying to lose that anytime soon.

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  • I'm shy, so I do like it when a guy asks first, but it's definitely not a male duty. In my opinion, at least.

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  • I'm fine with being expected to make the first move.

    Only things I have a problem with are being expected to pay and if the girl is ambiguous about her answer or plays hard to get.

    Some guys think it would be better if girls made the first move but realistically if you can't get girls now, I doubt youd do any better if girls were making the first move.

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  • Ok, so lets say is the guy's job to do so, BUT for fucks sake is the girl's job to make the guy comfortable enough and at ease.

    Sure, some girls make it obvious they are attracted but some either play games or think of men as wizards and fortune tellers without ever giving a clear sign of interest.

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  • It shouldn't be, but the sad truth is if you want a girl you'd better ask her out, cuz I guarantee she isn't planning on approaching you first anytime soon.

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  • No, I don't. Women can also do the job of asking out and in today's world I guess women have also started doing that.

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  • I'm very old fashioned, I believe so. I also believe the guy should ask to be exclusive.

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