My boyfriend invites me for the weekends and even pays for the airtickets, long distance relationship, but when i try to touch him he doesn't seem interested in having sex with me , i told him about it and he said that it has nothing to do with me that he loves me and finds me attractive, we are planning to get married but it really bothers me because he rejects me all the time, what should i do?
Most Helpful Guy
Sex is an important component of most successful marriages. I wouldn't tie the knot without having figured this out with him first. He probably doesn't even understand it clearly himself, but if the spark is already gone before the wedding, it will definitely be a sexless relationship after marriage.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He's gaining something from this relationship, people only do things if it benefits them. and if it's not sexual, then either he will never be interested in sex and is basically asexual, or he's getting something else out of this relationship and he doesn't actually find you attractive..
Although to me it sounds more like an insecurity, he wants to wait until after marriage, or he just doesn't want sex. Just ask him about it, if you can't ask your fiance that question, who the hell can you ask?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE