But im also completely different to her. She parties and has big boobs and stuff but there's me, plain and boring. People tell me that (he's way out of my league) he wouldn't give a shit about what his mates think about people he dates- but I don't want to be the person he downgraded to either.
I really like him but he's put me in the friend zone and my friends tell me to leave it but I don't know what to do?
- Give up but still talk
- Try and get him without being a slag
- See poll
- Wait for him to be single
- Try and subtly compete
- Ignore him
Most Helpful Guy
He has a girlfriend so he's not available. Whether you approve of his girlfriend or their reasons for being together doesn't matter. He has a girlfriend and that's that
I would vote A and say give up but still talk. But I suspect you won't be able to do that. I suspect if you continue talking to him, that you'll continue having a crush on him, and just get hurt. Worse than getting hurt, you shouldn't dedicate that much time to someone who is off limits. Your time is the most precious thing you have in life. Spend it wisely instead of chasing after dreams.
I know from my own experience and the experience of many other people. It's easy to get a crush on one person and spend too much time focused on them. There are probably others all around you that you are neglecting. I look back at when I was in high school and could kick myself for doing that. There were a lot of girls who obviously liked me, but I was too blind to see it, or too hung up on one girl to act on it.1
Most Helpful Girl
I really don't think I like you. Being with this girl is his decision even if he is going to crash and burn, that does give you the right to think you are what's right for him. Do you have a problem with girls with big boobs? I have big boobs amd have never partied or sent nudes. Do you really want to be the side chick? There is no way of knowingly getting with a guy who has a girlfriend and not being a slag. Fucking youths.
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