If guys "use" women for sex, then why can't women "use" men for money?

I feel like when a guy is using women for sex people just shake their heads in judgement and maybe call him a dickhead but if a woman uses a man for money oooooh everyone is up in arms you gold digging whore bitch slut I hope you fucking burn in hell. Like wtf why can't we all use each other happily?
I can have sex anytime I want but I can't have money anytime I want so why not use a guy for what I really want? Just as a guy uses girls for what he really wants, intercourse.

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  • SOME guys use girls for sex, and SOME girls use guys for money. That already happens every day (by SOME people) and the people being used are sometimes okay with being used that way.

    I think MOST people don't use people for either one of those, though, and that's good too.

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  • You have a really fucked up way of thinking. Get a job and make your own money, don't rely on a man for that. I'm be ashamed to think the way you do, that I only want a man for his money. No thank you, I will provide for myself.. I'm not a gold digger

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    • Lol that's a really sweet story and I'm happy for you but I wasn't talking about you specifically just girls who use men for money and the shit they get for it as opposed to the men who don't get as much for what they do

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  • In the last 100 years women have taught and died for their rites and equality.
    For me as a man this meant in every aspect of life not just in the work place and socially but in the bedroom too.
    It's a little upsetting and some what demeaning to hear young woman saying the things you say. Having sex with men for money takes you way back beyond what those women died for.
    I agree men and women should have sex on equal standing both giving and receiving pleasure equally. Caring about the other person s pleasure.

    However to have sex trying to extract money from a guy is deeply manipulative and what most guys would despise in a woman. So in trying to achieve what you are you'll only make your situation as a woman worse.
    I suspect it's got a lot to do with the the unfortunate type of male company you keep. That has helped shape your opinion of men.
    Well were not all like that.
    Sex for some of us is about giving pleasure seeing the pleasure give in a woman's eyes and body. Watch her writhing in ecstasy from my efforts.

    After giving such pleasure I could and would never say " did you enjoy that can you lend me some money "

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  • Not all guys use women for sex.. I do not.. but many men do.. and if the girl knows the guy she is with is doing this.. I then say yes by all means use him for his money as it would be a fair trade off.. but he would only expect more from the women now if she did this.. or he would just throw it in her face and use that as ammunition when he got all huffy.. just to get more of what he wants.. those guys and many are out there like that have no respect for the women.. it is all about them

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  • Sorry I am a "guy" and don't appreciate being lumped in with bunch of men that "use" women for anything.

    In regards to women using men for money, some women maybe okay with that scenario and some men maybe okay with having to whore out/buy a woman's affection, but it is not for me.

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  • Getting money in return for sex... that kinda sounds like prostitution. There's nothing wrong for women to use men for sex, either way around is alright. But when money is involved, it gets complicated.

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  • They're both effed up. Why use people to begin with?

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    • Selfishness? I guess it would be better if we all didn't but we do and will ccontinue for a long time.

  • The whole world revolves on sex and money and people who regurgitate preordained, prepackaged beliefs and hand out biased judgements like free condoms at an STD clinic need to STFU and stop confusing other people about their natural states of being.

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  • Because that is a massive generalization that you shouldn't base your interpersonal relationships on.

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  • Will you be happy if Men use women for money, and women use men for sex...
    How can someone use someone for sex? Its mutual love.
    And stop talking as if women dont enjoy sex and do it only to make men happy.

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    • Uhh? By pretending that a relationship is a certain way when it is in fact not, rather, a ploy to be intimate with a girl who otherwise wouldn't be intimate had shed known the true nature of said relationship... Der?

  • Because its wrong for a guy to use a woman for sex and so to by extention is a woman using a guy for money. If your talking about a guy only haveing sex with women with no intent on a relationship then he isn't using her she is choosing to have sex with him without any assurance of a relationship in which case no deception has taken place. If you are talking about actively telling a man you want his money and are willing to be his sugar baby then that would be exceptable as you where upfront about it and their where no deceptions, otherwise its wrong. Not all men use women for sex and in fact few actually do so that is also something to take into account.

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  • 1) women hate men who use women for sex and MOST (not all) guys who do that use promiscuous women for sex but not a girl who respects her body
    www.quickmeme.com/.../...4d1e972c67fcf3cfabce9.jpg
    2) Men hate girls who use them for money
    lh3.googleusercontent.com/.../14%2B-%2B1.gif
    Both genders have people they hate and these seem the most popular, neither is okay.

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  • They can and they do, but if you don't wanna get used for sex, its better not to use someone for money

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  • Neither are good and both should be shamed. Unless it's consensual from the start.

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  • I don't use women for sex, none of my associates use women for sex. None of us deserve to be used for money.

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    • Nobody deserves being used but it is the way it is so why does one get more shit for it is all I'm asking not whether or not it's deserved

  • I goes both ways actually. Both are generally frown upon heavily by the opposite sex, and accepted as almost normal by the same sex. Men want sex, women want a relationship.

    So when a man invests his time, energy, and money in a woman who will not reward him with sex, it is a wasted investment.

    When a woman invests her time, energy, and body into a man that doesn't reward her with a relationship then it's a wasted investment.

    Neither side sees the big deal because women don't have to pay for shit (so don't value the monetary contribution as much, and men don't value their "sexuality" the same way so don't give a shit about giving up their bodies like a woman.

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  • Isn't healthy and is annoying if that is the arrangement and you don't get the promised goods.

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  • Cause you were conceived as our personal cum dumpsters, we don't need to support you.

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    • Haha! But you gotta nurture and sustain the cum dumpster otherwise it deteriorates and you won't have a cum dumpsteršŸ˜” Why do you think the cum dumpster gets the house, the car, monthly payments aaaaaaaand the product of your cum?

    • Aha! You're right. I messed up!

  • Stupidity at its finest...

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  • Women do use men for money.

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  • Isn't this exactly what every female does?

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  • cuz girls give more than guys

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  • Up until about 30 years ago women had no choice but to use men for money... women were kept from pursuing decent jobs and educations that would earn them a living themselves. You didn't really marry for love, you married for survival... a man with a decent salary was a way out of your parents' home and a way to make sure any children you wanted had food on the table.

    Even though women are now more independent I think seeing men as banks has persisted, because to be totally honest a lot of women don't really like men, and it's sorta of like.. you treat US like s***, disrespect us, try to force us into submission to get the sexual services you want... so fine, we'll take your damn money.

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  • That's an interesting idea... I guess other people just like to judge each other.

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  • Two wrongs don't make a right.

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    • I wasn't talking about what's right wrong actually if you re-read I don't mention any of the two.

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    • Yeah but you're talking about the morality of the situation and just dismissing and avoiding the question completely. If guys can use women for sex, why do women get more shit for using men for money? Saying "two wrongs don't make a right" is just as well as not answering because the question wasn't 'do two wrongs make a right? '

    • I have never heard of a dude being cheered on for using a chick for sex. Normally most women will have the dudes head for that. Plus only stupid guys go around talking about who they have fucked. Most males don't even talk about it with other males.

      In this case "Two wrongs don't make a right." I used it meaning just because a dude uses a chick for sex. Doesn't mean she has the right to use him for money. Still makes her just as pathetically sad as the dude who used them.

      Going about it that way it's like saying if someone broke your computer. Then you have the right to break their computer to make things fair. Someone murders someone close to you. Then your allowed to murder someone close to them. All that is going to do is make people start wanting to get even and cause toxic feelings towards others.

  • Uhhhh... Who said men use women for sex?

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    • Lol go to sleep its past your bed time

    • Yeah, I see... someone is bitter with men

      Best wishes

  • I agree

    I'm 22 years old and I am looking to use a guy for money. I have done it before but I'm aiming for richer guys. Guys always want young girls how is that a girls fault? I do not have sex with guys I use for money but guys think it's ok to use women for sex yet they get mad when a woman gets money out of a relationship. That's what I want. It's not my fault guys are gullible as fuck. It's not my fault men think With their dick

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    • I fully agree with you. And aim higher. But I don't accept that because of my dick. I accept it because the dating game boils down to two things: women have sexual power and men have masculine power. money is power and the more a man earns the more powerful he is. So a clever man would use this to his advantage. Doesn't make him gullible. And the sad fact: this happens all the time.

    • Yeah that's why I put quotation marks on 'use' because it's not really using because both partys benefit @Scrambledagain

  • I don't want to depend on a guy, so I work for my money. But at the same time, I don't like being used for sex. This is why I establish my intentions, and let them know I do not do casual sex. I date, and if it goes well to relationship status, then I'll probably sleep with him. If the guy doesn't want to wait that long, he can move on to someone else like I will.

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  • Because some guys are hypocrites and can't get hot girls for being a broke loser

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