I posted a makeup free selfie and all at once, a couple guys were calling me gross and ugly, and that I don't even look average. There were some compliments, but it still upset me that the arschloch guys were being dickheads. I guess I have to have good setting spray and just contour my face from now on to have a boyfriend in the future.
Why are guys so picky when it comes to dating a girl and when it comes to a girl wearing makeup?
What Guys Said 8
pfft... dont alter yourself for anyone. those guys with the negative comments are probably comparing you to the morons on tv or caked up girls with tons of make up that they hide behind, when in reality they are just ugly.
leave the make up, girl... and let your natural beauty shine.1
No, what you need to do is realize that a certain percentage of people are complete fucking trolls and nothing you do will ever get a positive response from them. Their hobby is hurting people and getting off on their suffering.
The only thing being physically attractive does is make it more likely that guys will approach you. You can ditch the make-up and superfluous efforts on your appearance simply by being the active agent in your search for a boyfriend. There are so few women willing to do this that you will have an ENORMOUS advantage.
Let me tell you about a success story about this. There was a girl I worked with who had a great personality, a solid work ethic, and was kind-of ugly. She wasn't REALLY ugly, but she was fat, had funny proportions, didn't smell particularly good, and had a dark mustache. I liked her as a colleague, but wasn't interested in her as a girlfriend.
Well she decided she was going to move north out of state to go back to her family and wanted to have some fun before she went. She campaigned me HARD. Every minute she could she was right in front of me talking to me about... ANYTHING. She was steering the conversation toward her coming over to my place. Well, I was lonely and sexless (doesn't make me 'not a good catch'), and she was persistent. She came over, we fucked, she moved north. If she had campaigned me for more, I probably would have went for it because she really was a good girl.
What I'm driving at is the typical female model of doing fucking NOTHING to get a relationship besides worrying about what you look like will put you at a disadvantage.
Think about it:
There's a hot guy, checking out three women:
A '6,' a '7,' and an '8.'
A '4' gets up in his business, engages him in conversation, insinuates herself into his evening, makes it clear that he's getting laid tonight if he wants it.
Who do you think he's going home with?1
I don't really approve all this photoshopping and makeup usage. It's almost like people can't just show up makeup free in public anymore without being called ugly. Even I feel the same way if I forgot to apply my hairgel!
Luckily, there still are loads of girls who look good makeup free.1
Don't listen to those idiot guys who says they "hate" makeup. They simply can't identify and comprehend how makeup looks and what a good makeup job looks like!1
Put yourself on a pedestal and people will tear you down. You shouldn't need other people's opinion to feel confident. It's internal1
What Girls Said 2
Because guys are idiots and they dont realize the difference of makeup and makeup free.1
you are super pretty and you need to ignore all those bullies1
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