My best friend (who has had many girlfriends before) tells me it's because I keep trying to get a girlfriend. He told me to keep it "cool", and not activiely pursure women. He said to act like you're not interested, and when you do this, THEY will show interest in you.
Is this true? I've been rejected so many times, it angers me. I need a realistic solution
Most Helpful Girl
It's more like, when you're not too busy chasing after girls, you may even notice some girls are actually interested in you and talking to you. It's about relaxing. But make no mistake, things won't progress if you never show interest.
Personally, I never understood the point in putting effort into getting someone you don't really even know. Good partners take time to get to know.
Unless you're a deep believer in love at first sight...
Most Helpful Guy
I would say yes that's true, at least to a great extent, if you act cool and not pursue women, there is a good chance they can interest in you.
However it's not a stupid thing to try for a girlfriend, I mean as long as you are not showing desperation.