This has been ongoing for two months now. But over the course of the situation I've expressed to him that I'd like him to call and/or text me more just to talk because he only calls the night he wants to hang out and hook up. I also told him I'd like to spend time together outside his place on dates. So far the only thing resembling a date we've ever had was one night out at the bar a few weeks ago. And when we're at his place, he doesn't do considerate things like ask me if I'm hungry or if I'd like a shower.
So this Sunday I broke it off with him. Because I'm tired of the situation. I have feelings for him and I told him that, and how I wanted more than what he was giving me. The gist of his response was that he cares about me and likes me but that he doesn't want a relationship with me because he feels like there may be other options out there. And he said he's still about the chase and didn't feel the need to chase me. I told him we could still be cool but that I didn't think we should see each other anymore.
So the next night he texted me, asking if I want to go to the movies with him... What gives? He's never taken me out before, so why now? He'd always say little things like, "I wanted to see if you want to go to the movies soon" or "we can go out when I have more money because it's pretty tight right now"... But yet he always had money to spend on weed (he smokes multiple times a day).
So, why is he actually asking me out now that it's over? Is it because he doesn't want to lose me as